Jelena lives on, platonically.
If there's one couple that's proven you can be friends with your ex, it's probably Emma Stone and Andrew Garfield who come to mind; the golden couple we all loved to love have kept things amicable and continued their friendship long after their relationship ended, and publicly stated they will always care for one another.
Now, another (and rather unlikely) pair is proving that you can be friends with your ex – one Selena Gomez and Justin Bieber. Can exes really be friends? Jelena has shown us how.
Lesson one: the initial catch up
Whether things ended amicably or not, the initial catch up is crucial, and you have to both be willing to put everything behind you to enter the friendship stage. For Gomez and Bieber, the pair reportedly decided to put their history behind them when Gomez had a health scare, revealing she had had a kidney transplant earlier this year. For Jelena, the said hang out took place at Gomez's Studio City, Los Angeles, home with the singer hosting a few friends, including Bieber – a group catch up being a great way to approach a possible friendship with your ex.
Lesson two: make sure your partner is fine with it
According to TMZ, Gomez's current boyfriend The Weekend is "fully aware" of the exes hanging out and he is totally fine with it.
Lesson three: the public hang out
Having tested the waters in private, Gomez and Bieber were finally ready to go public with their newfound friendship, meeting for breakfast last Sunday morning at a café in Westlake Village, LA. According to E! News, the pair looked "friendly."
Lesson four: keep it platonic
This isn't about mending, it's about moving forward, so there shouldn't be anything romantic about catching up with your ex. According to TMZ, Jelena kept it casual this past weekend by attending church together in LA, a move you might want to copy, or feel free to insert a non-romantic activity of your own choosing.
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